Monday, October 5, 2009

8 Weeks

I made it to 8 weeks and all I got was this lousy cold.

Let’s see what happened in the last few days, shall we?

I’ve been falling asleep on the couch around 8 pm. I can avoid it by going for a nice long walk after work, but I’m usually too tired to do that.

I researched dental x-rays and pregnancy. For the first time ever, Dr. Google didn’t tell me my baby and I would both be scarred for life. I found this gem (on Yahoo answers): “X-rays for dental cannot hurt your fetus unless you are some kind of marsupial freak that carries your young in your cheeks.” One lady exclaimed that the asker should rush to the doctor immediately before you burn in a fiery hell, but she was the minority. So I’m done worrying about that.

I told my parents this weekend. Of course they were happy and my mom cried. When I told them this one would work out because it was an accident, my dad breathed a sigh of relief and said, “Ain’t that the truth!” For reference: my oldest brother was born a few days after my dad graduated from high school.

My mom refused to listen to my rules of not talking about the future of this pregnancy. She said that she understands my concern (because she’s been through this, too), but she is going to be positive.

I ended up telling a bunch of other people as well. My mom is a nurse and had a party on Sunday with lots of other nurses. One of them is an educator for OB nurses and I wanted her advice on the H1N1 vaccine (I’ll be getting it). Since I told some of the nurses, I had to tell others. Then my brother showed up, and I told him, too. Now it seems like everyone knows and I’m ok with that. Every person said they would keep me in their prayers. That is exactly what I need.

I do have a knock-down snotty type of cold right now and I’m cranky because I can’t take my lovely Advil Cold and Sinus. I slept in this morning, but I still feel icky. But I’d rather be sick now than be able to take the medicines. Does anyone have any old-school remedies?

6 comments:

Kailyn's Mommy said...

So happy to hear things are still going good for you. Sorry about the cold, though!
I go for my next scan Thursday and I am about to have a melt down. Had some different cramps last night and it brought me back to 02/04/09 (my last miscarriage) like a horribly real nightmare. No spotting, though, thank god. I just hope it was lil Pea trying to make more room.

Mother Knows Best Reviews said...

I'm so sorry you're sick, but glad that you are in a position where you can't take meds!

Have you tried a vaporizer or breathing in some steam? I haven't done much research - is Zicam safe with pregnancy?

Ms. J said...

Recommendations . . . cool mist humidifier while you sleep, 1000 mg of T.ylenol (or faux-Tyl.enol), lots and lots of fluids, maybe some 100% juice (vitamin C), too.

As for "Telling" ... it makes it feel so dangerous, doesn't it?! I made my Dad promise not to tell anyone until I made it through the first OB appt with a h/b. He called me the following day and said, "The only people I told were your Aunt Lee, Uncle Charlie (both major gossips), and everybody at the hospital" (he works as a respiratory therapist). So, in other words, EVERYBODY.

My manicurist said something interesting to me (she has 3 boys, and had 3 m/c's) . . . "not telling doesn't mean you are going to grieve any less if something bad happens." My dear friend who has been matched with a special needs toddler girl from China (looking good for them to proceed!) has been holding off on sharing the news widely, while her husband is flippin' appy and shouting from the rooftops -- his reasoning: "I don't want to look back on this time and regret not having enjoyed all of the excitement and goodness." There is truth in that, too.

You know "I get it," honey ;o)

I am 16 wks, 3 days now . . . and only now starting to feel open to sharing beyond immediate family & friends.

LuckyOnce said...

The only things that I was allowed to take when I was pregnant were plain old tylenol (useless) and regular Robitussin. (You have to be sure to not get Robitussin DM.)

good enough said...

Is a sinus rinse safe during pregnancy? If it is, I HIGHLY recommend it. You basically squirt a salt water solution up your nose until it comes out your other nostril and/or mouth. Yeah, it's completely disgusting, but helps SO MUCH with sinus and nasal symptoms. You can buy a kit at the drugstore.

Michele said...

My mom was always super confident too. It really helped on the days that I wasnt.

Sending you healing vibes! I'm sorry you dont feel well@